Why, WHY, are 98% of highschool girls complete and total bitches (excuse my french)?? Why do they feel the need to, for a stupid or no reason whatsoever, to backstab, lie, cheat, whine, feign innocence when caught in their own freaking game, lie their way out of a hole they KNOW they cant get out of, blackmail, whore attention, and interesting mixes of all of the above. They let guys get between them and their friends, even if their friend has known the guy in question for OVER TWO YEARS.
I dont know, I’ve been told I trust too easily, but jesus! Why can’t they be more like guys? Guys have a problem with each other, they tell them TO THEIR FACE. They have a “disscussion” about it, and either it’s resolved or there’s no point. Noooo, girls have to take things to UNBELIEVABLE proportions, and blow EVERYTHING to an extreme extent.
I am going to have more guy friends from now on. Don’t get me wrong, I have girlfriends, 3 really good ones. However, you rarely have ANY problems with guys. Especially gay guys. One of my best guy friends is gay. The only problem you will have with a gay guy (if you’re a girl) is who gets what guy, in which cases you will win. If you don’t, chances are you had no chance in the first place.
That concludes my first rant in over a month. Thank you for your time.
The why of it is very simple: social training. Look up “passive aggressive behavior” for more specific details.
Let’s say Dick, Jane, Jimmy, and Susie are all 3 years old, playing in the sandbox. If Dick grabs Jimmy’s bucket and won’t give it back, none of the grownups comes down on Jimmy very hard when he smacks Dick in the head with his shovel; rather, they say “Jimmy, hitting people isn’t good, but we’ll let it go this time, because no one likes a thief. Dick, I’m sorry your head hurts, but you should have known better, so stop sniffling. Both of you, straighten up and behave. We don’t want this to happen again.”
If the same exchange involved Jane and Susie, the parents would NOT be so calm about it, and would most likely say things about how “Ladies don’t act like that!”
Under this double standard, boys are taught how to vent and ultimately control their anger, but girls are only taught how to hide it until it makes them crazy. Over time, their anger festers and comes out in all the stupid ways you mentioned: lying, backstabbing, and so on.
Fundamentally, these girls have been forced to live a lie, and it makes them feel powerless, and so they engage in these evil, contemptible behaviors. Maybe it’s not always as simple as that, but that’s most of it. More than anything, they deserve your pity, but I’ll understand if you don’t feel like being that generous with them.
There are two bits of good news. The first is that this is happening less in each generation, because girls are being raised to be more active and assertive. It’s still got a way to go, but the trend is headed in the right direction. The second bit of good news is that you can help it along by just not taking any grief from these girls. I’m not saying you need to go hit them with a shovel; a quick “I’m tired of your bullshit. Stay out of my life.” ought to do it. If it doesn’t, please consult with your folks before you do anything drastic.
take care,
Bob II
I love getting comments from you, they’re interesting and informative ^_^
Thanks for the feedback, you seem to be the only one who gived it. Talk to ya later
I agree with you, girls tend to be a bit dramatic, but alot of guys are too. It all depends upon how they were raised and the personality of the person in question. what if that person were raised differently? would they be less likely to be dramatic people? or would the always turn out the same way?
Or maybe it’s the personality that’s at fault. That no matter what environment that person was raised in, they will turn out to be a drama queen/king.
I personally believe that it could be a combination of both. I think it could be more common for girls to be more dramatic because they tend to have the personality for it (aka, jealous easily, over reactive, ect.). which is also why guys can also be dramatic themselves. -caughjessecaugh-
and I guess I’m the second person to comment. awesomeness